Are you very experienced when it comes to having a one night stand or a no strings sex date or is it your first time? We all have to start somewhere and accepted; although some adults take to finding and handling themselves a fuck buddy like a duck to water others find it a daunting task unsure of what they should say or do. Fear not, as long as you remember your etiquette there is no reason why the first and then subsequent NSA dates shouldn’t be all equally enjoyable.
It is more than likely that the person you have arranged to meet for your NSA date entered a nickname or username to go by rather than their real one when registering their details online. Finding out their real name before you meet is the first golden rule and it is only polite that you should at least try and remember their first name.
Ensuring your own hygiene and cleanliness is up to scratch will help avoid an embarrassing situation. Make sure you take a bath or shower before meeting, if you are meeting a non smoker don’t go stinking of cigarettes and for the guys remember to have a shave. Some of the ladies you meet might be married and enjoying s secret affair type date, you don’t want to give them a tell tale stubble burn to take home with them and of course, no love biting.
Don’t turn up without a condom, it doesn’t matter if you are the male or female always go prepared and ready for safe sex. You wouldn’t want to be responsible for a surprise pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease would you?
Don’t use the words “I have never done this before” saying that to your sex partner will give them the impression that you are ashamed at what you are doing and that you are doing something wrong. If you are doing your best to have a conversation with your fuck buddy and the replies are all coming back as yes and no answers consider that they do not wish to talk and they are quite happy to get down and on with it without 101 questions.
Never brag about past experiences, it is not a competition to see who the best is. On the same note do not ask them how good you were; asking them to evaluate your performance is a definite no. If they enjoyed your performance they are sure to be in touch again for another NSA date, if they don’t then try not to take it personally, the chemistry might just have been wrong between you both.
There is nothing more awkward than over staying your welcome. Picking the right moment to leave is a tricky one. Don’t plan on staying over the night for morning after sex, waking up next to someone in the following day is far too emotionally involving. Try to arrange your sex date for the early afternoon then there will be no suggestion of stopping over.
Don’t sneak out or run off without saying goodbye. Politely saying that you must be on your way and taking your clothes into the bathroom is totally acceptable. Make sure you clean up after yourself as well, no leaving a messf it happens then it is a bonus but if your sex buddy makes it clear that it is time to leave don’t hang around and no kisses goodbye.